Yesterday, afternoon I has having a nice Y!M chat with two ladies who are both talking to me about their upcoming marriage.
Girl #1 is asking me who would she choose... a man who came just recently but already she knows that he is the one she wanted all her life or the man with whom she has known for quite sometime?
At first, it baffled me... that is until I learned that the man she wanted all her life is the one who is willing to commit to her forever, while the man she has known for quite some time told her to wait for four years before they talk again about marriage.
Ok, now I get it. I simply told her that if she isn't in a hurry, try to study the new guy first but don't dump the "old" guy just yet. Goodluck J!
Girl #2: We talked about her vacation here in the Philippines and Thailand. She had so much fun because she's with her boyfriend. They plan to get married on a simple church wedding within the year. Congrats D!
So what's is it for me?! These two wonderful ladies... once upon a time... were both my girlfriends. Somehow I found it weird that I am chatting with them at the same time talking about the same thing... that is marriage... a subject that we once talked about of getting into when we were so much inlove then...
La lang...
